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Constructive Steps In Handling Conflict Step Three: Listen Attentively.
“When Phinehas the priest and the chiefs of the congregation, the heads of the families of Israel who were with him, heard the words that the people of Reuben and the people of Gad and the people of Manasseh spoke, it was good in their eyes.” – Joshua 22:30 (ESV). Being an instrument of peace…
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Step One: Get the facts before you react! Discord is in every corner of life: Marriage, work, politics, school, and the church. Even people with well-meaning intentions can create conflict. Just ask Joshua. In the Old Testament (Joshua 22), God’s chosen people are united in serving Him. Aside from occasional spats, they remain united as…
Read MoreUnity Above All
“I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment.” — 1 Corinthians 1:10 (ESV) I need a respite from conflict! It doesn’t matter where you…
Read MoreHow can I love someone who’s hurting me?
“How is it possible to love the Azerberjanis?” An Armenian pastor asked me that question while grieving the loss of young men from his church killed in a needless war. “I know we must love our enemies,” he said, “but how?” It was an honest question from a grieving heart, one I hear more and…
Read MoreAvoid the Door of Covetousness
“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor’s.” – Exodus 20:17 (ESV) It’s tempting to view God’s commandments as restrictive and suppressive. However, God is loving and desires to…
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Step Two: Clarifying the facts requires a qualified team. “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!” – Psalm 133:1 (NASB95) When we experience unity, it’s rest for the soul. The Psalmist provides a visual image of experiencing unity: “It’s like the precious oil on the head that…
Read MoreThe Truth, The Whole Truth, and Nothing but the Truth!
“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.” – Exodus 20:16 (ESV) “There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false…
Read MoreFearless in the Storm
“God is a safe place to hide, ready to help when we need him. We stand fearless at the cliff-edge of doom, courageous in sea-storms and earthquakes, before the rush and roar of oceans, the tremors that shift mountains. Jacob-wrestling God fights for us, God-of-Angel-Armies protects us. – Psalm 46:1-3 (The Message). Eugene Peterson’s paraphrase…
Read MoreDon’t Steal
William Barclay writes: “One of the rarest things in modern society is to carry out the Christian Ethic of absolute honesty in a society in which strict honesty has almost ceased to be a virtue.”[1] Some things are still wrong, even if our friends say, “it’s okay.” My friends thought it was “cool.” I was…
Read MoreNo still means no!
Almost daily, we hear of an adulterous affair. Infidelity by celebrities, politicians, clergy, businessmen, and women is attractive bait for the media to increase audience ratings. It’s challenging to find television programming that does not include or insinuate an adulterous relationship. The “forbidden” somehow becomes a winsome, magnetic attraction that draws the audience in —…
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